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一个单位如此,一个家庭也大致和单位差不多,一个家庭的家长,男的或者是女的,他们在家中大权独揽,对其他任何家庭成员的想法和意见都不能接受,他们只能接受自己的决策,如有人有半点不慢,对待小孩子则是拳打脚踢,对待大人则是因人施策,看人下菜,对老实人则是连哄带吓,让他们白癜风怎么医治服服贴贴,对于有点头脑而且难缠的家庭成员,则会用实惠堵他的嘴,让他们说不出话,对于这两种方法都不奏效的,那他就会哭哭啼啼的,装出一副非常委屈的样子,唯恐别人不知道他为家庭所作的无私牺牲,对于最最难对付的一类人,他会用爱和孝顺来说服你,实在不行,他就会使出锏,那就是请来救兵,族中长辈或者舅家大佬出面弹压。无论如何,他就是要全家都遵从他的意志,长此以往,他就不会听取任何家庭成员的意见,而认为自己的决定是英明无比,别的人不敢也不想再提意见,这样子,表面上看起来家庭和气的很,他洋洋自得的以为能应家和万事兴的古训,岂不知,家中人早已离心离德,家庭的崩塌已经是迟早的事了。
单位和家庭都是按领导的意思办事,上级不谦虚,没有接受不同意见的胸怀,没有不耻下问的谦虚精神,这个国家何尝不是如此,我只是希望全国的人,都能少一点浮躁之心,多一点谦虚的敢于愿意接受正确意见和建议的精神。
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