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近段时间读到一则新闻：“一个班级40名学生，三好生有30位，再加上进步之星、体育之星、阳光之星等，全班都有奖。”   

　　一个班级75％是三好生，是属于表扬教育的泛滥。一个班级按比例评选三好生，其目的是榜样作用。让学生有竞争意识，使孩子向最好的看齐，在德智体美劳各方面做得更加完美。有比较，有竞争，才是督促孩子进步的动力。如果人人都是三好生，孩子就失去竞争的动力，没有比较、没有竞争就没有斗志。   

　　目前，初中毕业升学需要综合素质评价，需要孩子成长记录袋。孩子的成长过程需要一定的奖励记录。三好生成了升学需求和家长的“要奖”期盼。学校在评奖问题上也很尴尬，家长的迫切要求，孩子的确不错，每个孩子都有其闪光点，都有特长，于是，“三好生”泛滥。   

　　表扬教育泛滥令人担忧。孩子都在表扬声中长大，没有受到挫折，没有受过委屈。一旦遇到困境很难接受，出现情绪低落，产生偏激行为，造成无法想象的后果。一直受表扬的孩子形成的性格，往往是“老虎屁股摸不得”的弊端。他们敢于在课堂与教师对决，将自身的不足都归咎别人的失误。用褒义词是“自信”，用贬义词就是“自负”。   

　　表扬教育的目的是培养孩子树立自信。但孩子过分自信变成自负的时候，还要表扬教育，那就是南辕北辙偏离了教育方向。自信不是盲目自大，自信不是目中无人。自信是自知之明，正确对待人和事，正确分析成功和失败。自信是一种健康的心理素质，败不萎靡，成不骄傲，持之以恒地坚持努力。现在泛滥表扬教育出现负面效应，培养出一批内心脆弱，自以为是，甚至狂妄自大的一代。   

　　表扬教育是针对封建礼教、棍棒教育等极端残酷的、伤害孩子自尊的条件下提出来的，目的是保护孩子的天性，使孩子能顺其自然、合乎规律的健康成长。而今，表扬教育也走向极端，使“虎妈”和“狼爸”有了一席之地，让他们也有标榜自己教育成功的机会。这样的教育有点“返璞归真”，从终点又回到起点，有反复轮回的感觉。   

　　教育规律与大自然规律一样，需要阴阳协调，适可而止，不可泛滥。大自然有山就有水，有阴天就有晴日，有白天也有黑夜。晴日太多成旱灾，雨天太多成水患，风调雨顺才是好气候。教育亦然，表扬教育太泛滥也会造成“夜郎自大”；棍棒深圳白癜风医院[/[url=http://www.xhy1s1.com/bdfdt/zlcs/m/1375.html]深圳白癜风医院url]深圳白癜风医院教育太苛刻也会摧残孩子的健康。适中教育是最科学的教育方法，人人都知道，但把握这个度不是说说而已，需要对孩子的个性有透彻的了解，根据孩子的实际性格进行教育。（发表于《瑞安日报》）

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